My relationship with my mother with a very positive one. She raised me, mostly by herself, when I was younger and growing up. She worked very hard to raise me in the right way and teach me right from wrong. She always put me and my needs before her own. I feel like she is my best friend.
My relationship with my husband is also a positive one. We were drawn to each other from the moment we met. We became very close and had a lot of the same interests. We became friends first and stayed friends for a few months. I believe this helped our relationship because we really got to know each other before we got married.
I believe I have the best children ever. My sons are 3 and 1. My relionship with my oldest can be hard at times. My son was recently diagnosed with sensory processing disorder. We have a lot of challenges, but we continue to work through them and each day I feel our relionship grows stronger. My youngest son is a mommy's boy. He is attached to my hip at all times.
It is difficult to maintain a positive relationship at all times. There are struggles and disagreements from time to time. Each person has to figure out ways to deal with issues and work through them. This is the only want to maintain the relationship. Talking and trying to work things out is a must.
My husband and I have a great relationship and I feel that are partners when it comes to raising our children. I believe that all parents should have a partnership when it comes to raising their children. Whether they are together or not, they must be partners when it comes to their children. This is what is best for the child.
I hope that I can be a positive influence to the families of the children that I work with. By having so many positive relationships in my own life, I hope that I can mentor and help build stronger relationships.
Hi Misty, Nice reading about you in your blog. Yours is a happy looking family, and I can see the Oedipus complex phenomena developing with the mommy boy. I like your sharing about being friends with your husband. I think it comes through when there is sincere sharing and giving of self to the other person. Of course there is no relationship without disagreement. But how we go about settling our little differences with love and respect is what matters.
ReplyDeleteMisty,
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing your family and relationships with us. I agree with you that relationships sometimes have ups and downs. They require attention and deserve to be nurtured.
I think that relationships are important also. I have a relationship like you do with your mother and I think that is so important for parents to be partners in providing for their children whether they are together or not. It helps to instill in them values and provides a sense of security. Kermethia
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing. You have very strong/positive relationships. I agree that maintaining a relationship takes work and understanding, especially during times of disagreement.
ReplyDeleteHi Misty!
ReplyDeleteGreat blog :) I liked reading about how your relatonships influence your interactions with the families you work with. I agree that having strong personal relationships help us support others.
Very cute boys!
Lisa